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Ruben and Harsha walking through the redwoods
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Ruben & Harsha
Sunday · April 11, 2027 · Benicia, California
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Chapter One

Our Story

How We Met
One swipe, one delayed date, and a little bit of fate.

On Dating Sunday, Harsha was sitting on his couch and beginning to wonder if true love might never be found on a dating app. Then Ruben appeared on Tinder: handsome, charming, and, as Harsha would later discover, slightly more generous with his height in photos. 😄

Ruben, meanwhile, was ready to find his true love in the new year. He had already liked Harsha’s profile, so the moment Harsha swiped right, it was an instant match. Harsha sent the first message while Ruben was waiting for another date to arrive. When that date ran late, Ruben started chatting with Harsha instead—and the conversation came so easily that Harsha stayed on his mind for the rest of the evening.

The next day, they were still talking. Harsha eventually asked Ruben out, and the following Saturday they met at Maggiano’s on a rainy evening in January. Over pasta and sangria, followed by dessert at Cocola, they discovered just how easy it was to talk to one another.

Harsha left the date wanting it to go on forever. Ruben left wanting to make sure Harsha would pursue him—and, perhaps more importantly, that he could be the kind of partner Ruben had been hoping to find.

What followed was exactly that: more dates, more conversations, a growing connection—and two people realizing surprisingly quickly that this might be something special.

The Proposal
Two proposals, two surprises, and a universe with a sense of humor

On October 7, 2025, Harsha brought Ruben to Artists Bluff in New Hampshire to show him the beautiful fall views. Ruben was excited for the hike. Harsha was excited too—but mostly because he had a little secret. He was going to propose.

The plan was a quiet morning, a beautiful backdrop, and a photographer to capture it all. But the photographer got sick and was delayed, and Ruben grew increasingly—and understandably—hangry.

Eventually, with the lookout filling up, Harsha decided he couldn’t wait any longer. He got down on one knee and asked Ruben to marry him, surrounded by what felt like an entire amphitheater of tourists.

Ruben said yes. And what could have been a disaster became a beautiful adventure. They spent the rest of the day exploring New Hampshire and taking proposal pictures wherever they went, turning the unexpected into memories they would always treasure.

Back in California, they hired a photographer for a session in the Santa Cruz Mountains. After multiple reschedules, they finally made it to the shoot.

This time, Ruben had a surprise of his own. He was ready to get down on one knee too.

Harsha, who had planned the first proposal so carefully, had absolutely no idea it was coming. Ruben had planned his surprise perfectly—and this time, he was the one asking the question.

Two proposals. Two very different surprises. And a photography journey that somehow became one of their favorite stories to tell.

The universe made them work for it - but in the end, it gave them two beautiful proposals to add to their memories.

What's Next
We can't wait to celebrate with you

Our favorite part of this day won’t be the flowers, the music, or even the cake.

It will be having the people we love most in the world gathered together in one place.

Our journey has been filled with so much love, laughter, and support from the people around us. As we begin this next chapter, it means the world to us to have you there to celebrate, dance, laugh, and make memories with us.

Thank you for being part of our story. We can’t wait to celebrate this beautiful day—and the beginning of forever—with all of you.

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The Wedding

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Date
Sunday, April 11, 2027
Ceremony begins at 5:00 PM
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Location
Jefferson Street Mansion
1063 Jefferson St,
Benicia, California 94510
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Dress Code
Semi-Formal
Come dressed up, but ready to have fun. Think suits, cocktail dresses, jumpsuits, and elevated separates—with shoes you can comfortably dance in.
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Menu
Buffet
A delicious buffet with something for everyone, featuring both vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes. Come hungry, stay for seconds, and save room for dessert.
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RSVP By
March 1, 2027
We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Registry
Coming Soon
Details to follow
Where We Celebrate

Jefferson Street Mansion

Where history, romance, and a little bit of magic come together.

Built in 1861 and lovingly restored, Jefferson Street Mansion is a historic gem tucked away in the charming town of Benicia. With its grand architecture, lush gardens, fragrant wisteria, and sweeping views of the Bay, it felt like the perfect setting for the beginning of our next chapter.

We fell in love with its timeless character and the feeling that every corner has a story to tell. On April 11, 2027, we can’t wait to add ours.

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April 11, 2027

The Day

Us

A Few Moments

Getting Here

Travel & Stay

Where to Stay
Getting There
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Q & A

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